So reason #500 I am a bad cultivator of things like flowers- thank heavens this does not hinder my parenting!  I got a paradise hibiscus last year- it was a beautiful tree like plant and at the nursery I fell in tree love.  I bought it- I wondered a lot through the Oklahoma summer why… Continue reading Paradise tree

My house on a regular basis looks like its been ransacked- I promise no one has robbed us but if I spent half the time it would take to get it what most consider presentable I would miss the greatest moments.  We have structure, we do chores but most of all we have fun, in… Continue reading Grateful always Thankful most

The 3 of us girls don't share DNA but we love each other so much we often joked that none of us had sisters so we were chosen sisters - well we missed E and Harris but the chosen cousin clan shared some big love this week and their were big tears at departure

Nothing burns my britches quite like being manipulated- one of my favorite friends says it best when she calls you out on that passive aggressive behavior- passive aggressive much??? If you want me to put my phone down say "hey can you just be with me for a minute" lets not say "wow I am… Continue reading Hey girl simmer on down a notch

I have often blamed my anxiety on one source, but after diving into this discovery journey I have realized that was only the beginning, something used to plant the seed of self doubt, and to the notion that I was not enough and I would never be.  I remember so specifically one of my friends… Continue reading Comparison is the stealer of Joy

Laughter is the best medicine , there is a hard week(I am not certain she ever has an easy one) coming for the littlest sister, watching babies go even when you know it's for the very best still hurts. These two angels haven't been the easiest nor the hardest but for some reason they captured… Continue reading Laugh

I know all the time I am so blessed by this woman - she inspires me, pushes me to be better, God Work's In so many ways, and making me a part of this family was one of his great works, I am grateful to walk through life in such good company - we missed… Continue reading Support the badge #731